Generosity
Life, she is a strange place.
Because of my religious background, I’ve never celebrated my birthday. I’ve never felt like I missed out, either – it’s just been How Things Were. Mum always acknowledged the day somehow, but the whole cake/candles/party traditions were out.
You can probably work out just from the above, let alone previous posts, what faith I grew up in. I try to avoid naming it; I may have left, but my family (and many others I have a lot of respect for) believe as strongly as they ever did. I admire their faith – my leaving doesn’t alter that.
Come to think of it, that may be partly why Mum took to my leaving as calmly as she did. She knew I wasn’t going to go to the other extreme and faithbash any opportunity I had.
However. I turned 23 yesterday. And I discovered all over again that I have generous friends.
…I’m really a little overwhelmed. I have been shouted lunch (twice, thanks Reiv and Colitis), given a Discworld tshirt (… which just YAY, Pratchett, thankyou AuntieTekkie), really pretty jewellery (Thanks Filmy, you know my taste well!) along with a hilarious “Happy First Birthday!” card, and the Tobermory? Well, he’s… generous to a fault, is all I’m going to say about that. (And also that I have new shinies which apparently I turned into a twitterpated toddler about yesterday.)
It’s simultaneously overwhelming, touching, and OMG COOL STUFF.